Be Empowered By Aroma Therapy

Aromatherapy: The use of fragrant botanical oils for physical, psychological and spiritual well-being.

From as early as 4,500 before the common era, essential oils (powerful, concentrated organic compounds extracted steam-distilled or cold-pressed from plant flowers, fruit, resins, roots and bark) have been recognized for their natural healing powers that promote health and well-being. Powers over physical ailments and powers over emotional issues. Their fragrances soothe, heal, and invigorate the mind and body. Aromas act on the deepest parts of the brain and the central nervous system to enhance mood and emotions to relieve depression and anxiety and restore emotional wellness.

Their chemical constituents include antioxidants which encourage radiant health when used correctly. They have antiseptic, anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, anti-fungal and anti-parasitic properties. With hundreds of vitamins and other compounds, essential oils act as adaptogens which promote homeostasis. Essential oils are non-greasy and require only a few drops to have tremendous effects on emotional well-being, physical health or spiritual mindfulness. They easily penetrate deeply into the skin such that simple topical use with a carrier oil stimulates healing throughout the body as the compounds journey within. Using focused medicinal massage techniques, they stimulate the nervous system to release congestion and re-balance areas of the body affected by stress. With absorption into the bloodstream, these oils ease aches, pains, injuries while enhancing cellular renewal, blood circulation and effective detoxification for deep healing.

It is said that the sense of smell reaches the soul faster than any other sense. After all, scripture tells us that “Life” was breathed into Man. So it stands to reason that inhalation of “prana” leads to an enlivening of the “soul” … even enlightenment! Add to that an exquisite aroma and you gain a recipe for triggering emotional and even physical responses to help transform moods and move through different states of mind.

In the following video, Dr. Josh Axe and Jordan Rubin discuss essential oils nicely:

As you may have learned, many of these essential oils have powerful antibacterial and antiviral properties that surpass pharmaceutical variants in that they do not leave behind nor generate dangerous toxins for the body to deal with eventually. Essential oils are truly gifts to us through Nature.

Check out what Vanderbilt Hospital found when they began incorporating aromatherapy in their emergency room space:

But remember, it is important to use them correctly! There is a lot of unfounded as safe information floating around due to the success of two referral marketing companies whose associated distributors have been leading the way to knowledge about these Gd-given miracles. Unfortunately, their sole interest is to convince as many others as possible to peddle as many oils as possible … even while making claims as to their use that may be false. Always seek the help of a competent, certified authority when you need answers to important questions. As a general rule, though you will find some authorities knowledgeable in the use of essential plant oils internally, it is not the method of use recommended by aromatherapists. Not to say that one should never take an botanical oil internally. Just be sure to be in direct consultation with a responsible, competent authority.

It should be known that there is an effort at this very moment to help raise finishing funds to complete an independent aromatherapy documentary that seeks to deepen dialogues, dispel myths, empower engagement and encourage informed relationships with essential oils and their use in aromatherapy. Watch this preview:

Commonly Used Essential Oils

There are many options to consider, but here are some popular ones:

  • Bergamot is a citrus-scented oil that helps lower stress and anxiety levels.
  • Cedarwood has a woody fragrance. While its scent can help you relax, it can also aid in respiratory problems.
  • Chamomile, often consumed in tea, is known for its calming effects. But this essential oil can also help lift your mood.
  • Eucalyptus has cooling qualities and is used as a natural decongestant for those who suffer from respiratory ailments.
  • Jasmine is a sweet-smelling essential oil used to reduce stress and anxiety, as well as boost libido.
  • Lavender, soothing and calming, is often used for relaxation and to ease insomnia.
  • Lemon not only increases energy and focus, but boosts your immune system and promotes healthy digestion.
  • Peppermint is energizing and refreshing, and it can improve concentration and help relieve headaches and nausea.
  • Rosemary is a stimulating essential oil that can boost mental activity and sharpen your focus. It’s also used to ease pain and cramping.
  • Sandalwood can help release tension and increase your sex drive.
  • Tea tree oil can have an uplifting effect and help calm your mind.

Do you want to know what may be the Top 10 Essential Oils to keep on hand? See this:

By now, you may be thinking that you would like to have some of these gems on hand. Here you will access a very high quality source of 100% certified pure, therapeutic grade essential oils, much less expensive than those in the M.L.M. lineup. Eden’s Garden also has perhaps the most intriguing line of botanical body oils and perfumes that can have men “delirious” with desire after smelling product smart women “sporting” them. Here’s what The Healing Cave Lady had to say:

Obviously, if you want to smell amazing without being toxic to your body, E.G.’s could easily supply you with what you want. Phenomenal perfumes, deodorants, body oils, etcetera could all be found at really good prices. These guys are at the top of the game! Smell good and be therapeutically benefited at the same time. It’s awesome.

How would the following tickle the fancy of your best friend?

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Let’s consider too the cleaning aspects of essential plant oil use. Their antimicrobial properties provide adequate replacements. Toxins can hide out in your cleaning supplies, cookware, beauty products and more. While you may be leading an otherwise healthy lifestyle, some toxic household products can derail your health journey. Five are:

  1. Bleach ( Use Lemon Oil, Tea Tree Oil and White Distilled Vinegar instead)
  2. Antibacterial Chemicals (Use Castile soap or Alcohol enhanced with essential oils)
  3. Scented Candles and Air Fresheners (Use Essential Oil Diffusers or Baking Soda infused with Citrus or Tea Tree oils)
  4. Talcum Powder (Use Organic Cornstarch infused with choice essential oils)
  5. Non-Stick Chemicals (Use Stainless Steel or Cast iron with Avocado, Coconut oil or Ghee)

Doc Axe tells more in this video:

The bottom line leaves us with a feeling of promise to the hope that we can achieve and maintain well-being with the right attitude toward being. Good old fashioned olfactory based approaches to enriching our environments can be just what The Good Lord bade.

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The Quest for Super Foods

The word superfood is a marketing term for food with supposed health benefits. The term is not commonly used by experts, dietitians and nutrition scientists, many of whom dispute that particular foods have the health benefits often claimed by their advocates. But whatever, their stance, there are certain foods which are jam-packed with nutrients and dense with quality. No doubt, incorporating such foods into your meal plans can trememndously impact your health for good! Of course, the key to a healthy diet is to consume a variety of nutritious foods in the right quantities.

“What You Eat Matters” is a new, life-changing documentary uncovering and revealing the effects of our typical Western diet on our health, the environment and animals. Watch it:

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Sergei Boutenko discusses the health benefits that come from introducing more greens into your diet. His extensive Study of plants along with the latest in scientific research makes it fun, easy, and safe to introduce mineral rich wild edibles into your diet.

If by chance you are interested in a dynamic whole-food formula that contains 19 vegan, organic and wild-crafted green superfoods – in addition to grasses, dark leafy vegetables, herbs, algae and sea vegetables – plus an amazing blend of enzymes in a specialized probiotic complex to aid normal digestive health and immune function, Sun is Shining™ works to provide your body with incredible nutrition, while simultaneously alkalizing and energizing your inner ecosystem. There is no other green superfood blend as robust and advanced as Sun is Shining™! It is suggested you give it a place along with your other nutritional provisions.

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In any case, it should be more clear now that greens and other raw plant food edibles can transform the way you feel. That’s where the above nutritional supplement can come in handy. Not many of us have the time nor the resources to go outdoors, even to a vegetable garden, to collect nutrient rich leafy green edibles. So a shortcut is a good thing.

The view on life, as an elderly citizen with a lot of experience, is truly an inspiration and motivation. Listen to what the following elders have to say about what is important:

Even beyond nutrition, there are other considerations that need to be addressed. Always in all ways respect the gifts that life offers you.

Animated Living Enlivens

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No one I know is satisfied with a boring life. I can’t imagine anyone who would be! So what is it that holds some people from creating the life of their good dream? Perhaps they need to learn “the secret for acing life”? (i.e.: Always DO the thing you find the most emotionally difficult to do in whatever situation you find yourself in). Listen to Leo from Actualized.org

The emotionally challenged life sustains the actualization of intimacy with your being and leads to a richer, more rewarding life, with fulfillment and peace of mind. One way or another, you lead the way to where you’ll end up. Take charge of your life and be distinguished as yourself from all others. Animate your life! Write its story and play the part in your own “Emmy” “award winning” performance. Sometimes, even a little exaggeration will make you and others believe your seriousness about the situation. Take an example from The Maori:

I’m not saying you have to express yourself exactly that way, but you do have to instill within yourself the determination and will to succeed. After all, who decides what a meaningful life is to you? YOU Do! Your imagination can unlimitingly unlock amazing future unfoldings for you within your world.

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Of course, the animation of life that I am speaking about goes beyond the scenario viewed in the video and suggests that you “bring to life” your act of living and not go about it hazily, in a fog, but rather clear-headed with bearing. Meet your emotional challenges head on and be the one who activates and actualizes your being. From the most sensitive issue to the least, you’ll strengthen your conviction to reveal the real you. Whatever works for you, that you should be focused to do.

This is deliciously cool way to play … in an animated way!

Time waits for no one . . . Life goes on and passes like a shadow. Should ye not be doing the things that will cause you to live happy? Like I said before, write your story with a happy ending and play the role of the successful achiever . . . Whatever your goal, do the thing the most emotionally difficult for you to do and you’ll open the door to your well-deserved success. Become animated with love of your gifts in life. Those you bring as well as those given to you from others. Enliven your living through understanding its preciousness and your importance as part of the whole . . . You as a universe, your spirit in your body, your family, your community, our society . . . A small part yet a great asset.

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The road to an “enlivened” life is full of the unknown. But you can conquer the fear of it by having a good reason “why you must travel it”. How important is it for you to become . . .? Think well, generate the right feelings . . . and you will bring the results you desire.

It’s how you think that determines the happiness in your life. Use your power to control your estimate of things or occurrences and animate your thoughts to serve you well!

Personal Responsibility and The Power of Intention

Yep! Personal responsibility is what needs to be taken before any attempt at anything. Your response ability is what enables you to perform whatever it is you are to perform. Being able to respond to stimuli is an important part of action and re-action. How you act is a matter of practice. You define your habits.

When “who is in charge here” comes to question as you take on a project, YOU are the only one who will make sure that you are on track to getting what you want … And if you don’t get it, it’s no one else’s fault nor their problem. It’s your “baby” … You help it grow.

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Having the courage to accept that you are 100% responsible for everything gains you a power that very few people can actually take advantage of. The power of creation … A spring board for intent … A hand on the future. Where do you want to bring yourself?

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Taking personal responsibility is the first step to self-actualization. By committing yourself to pursuing a better you, you will be constantly inspiring yourself to greatness. Leo at Actualized.org has got lots more to tell you regarding the foundations of this topic.

Dr. Wayne Dyer also talks about this as well with the foundations for inner development:

The second step in the process of self-actualization is to use the power of intention.

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When you are inspired to act with clarity in alignment with truth and your conviction to uphold that truth, you will more quickly manifest your desires simply because of the alignment you have with what you want to attract into your life. Just as you intended! Listen to this clip of Dr. Wayne Dyer:

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Take charge of life and let the power of intention pulse through you for a purposeful life. Align yourself with your passions and activate your future achievements starting now.

The Power of Unconditional Appreciation

It’s going to seem a lot like Abraham Hicks Day with this blog post so hang on. I get a “kick” out of their video excerpts. Esther Hick’s “channeling” of what sounds like valid information is worth spreadinging I think. I’m imagining that you can agree after already hearing some of the teachings and won’t mind the seeming repetition. Of course your comments after reading this post and any of the others are appreciated!

A lot of people question the efficacy of prayer. Can one be sure it’s worth the effort to pray if the prayer isn’t fit for the ears of “The Listener”. For eample, one’s heart is not as “in the moment” as it should be? What is “It” listening for? What is expected of you when standing before “The Almighty Creator” and how well do you feel about how you are doing that … The total “You” … in that position? Who are “You” anyway? Why would it matter to “It” to answer you? What would come out of granting your desire, need or want? That which sees the end at the beginning already foresaw the geneology of the matter whole! Where does this prayer of yours fit in?

Perhaps simply being a matter of your being an extension of “It’s” energy lends you the power to connect directly with “It” … your “Soul” within, and have a real “heart to heart”? A major point of this life experience is to expand upon that which was created before us and unknowingly develop it forward … continually. At least that what they bring down:

So I’ve learned that prayer at it’s best is an acknowledgement of who we are in relation to the scheme of “The Creation” with an appreciation of the knowledge that no matter what, “Source” has our “back” … “It” is with us in all manners of our being and simultaneously encouraging The Universe to favor our advancement at all times. We get back what we put in and have the benefit of internal guidance that leads toward expanded enlightenment! We just have to be open to it … allowing our minds to focus with greater and greater clarity on the things in our lives that we feel happy about … and there are or should be many. Once you set your point of attraction to daily experiences of appreciation … to recognition of the abundance which is yours in this life … giving thanks for the “gift” of this experience “Source” provides us with … first thing each morning in your wake up “ceremony”… feel the return of the energy you have come to know of as “YOU” in the world … And begin to unfold into newness:

“Thank you for this new opportunity to experience again the wonders of Your Universe and how it seems to me as if You relate to me as the center of it all … taking care to provide all of Your Creation with sustenance and “light” …  and I benefit by being able to use my environment as “the building blocks” from which to “build” a new reality for myself each step of my way … I recognize that thoughts help stir the creation of reality and lead up to what manifests.  I especially appreciate that what will unfold for me in my experience this day will also one way or another help me onto the path most suitable for me to get to where I need to be going … to help me get to where I want to be … in the most efficient way possible … Because it is You who is guiding me and things cannot possibly go wrong … at least in the sense that they’d be the wrong things to happen … even if I might have thought so when they happened … You know what I mean 😉 “.

So “Source” is the “expanded version” of us … Supreme alignment with well-being and the vibrationally improved version of us that we sifted out from our life experiences? Our only “work” is to tune in alignment with the new and improved version that we “carved out”? By going forward with the flow of our expansion and who we are becoming, that’s what is meant by following the call of “Source”?

Every single one of us is unique and a valuable part of the Universe. Every one of us! With the “birthing” of improved preferences, the larger part of  ‘Source Energy” turns its undivided attention to that improvement and the expanded Universe moves on! “Source” flows with improvement and the expansion of “It”‘s Creation. Worry is absolutely unnecessary. Allowance of the process is necessary … So is appreciation of the broader perspective with asking for improvements along the way … As well as feeling the power of the life experience and moving in the direction of the energy which creates worlds! We must focus our point of attraction on the “the call” of “Source” and flow with “It’s” Universal current of pure well-being. Acknowledge that within you is a guidance system … your feelings about things. Care about the way you feel and constantly train yourself into better and better feeling thoughts. This is the way you establish alignment with who you are constantly becoming … You are thus immersed in living a joyous life. You can say then that the power of unconditional appreciation has its perks, ehh?

The following exerpt is an example of an appreciative “rampage” in “The Vortex”:

And now for something completely different … Enjoy!

That is a fine example of a spiritual human “being” … in expression of a personally crafted physical experience … Fun, artful expression of talent beyond convention … Done skillfully with love … Rich, famous and loved by her fans. A heroine! It’s amazing how many successfully concluded transformations she made over time … each one expanding beyond the former while maintaining the dignity of her greatness all throughout … She put her soul fully in her “prayer” and incessant good, happy feeling into her actions.

We are all capable of so many myriad feats and forms of greatness it is beyond imagination. But we have to use courage to express it … like the folk hero that succssfully defeated the force of evil and gained victory for the good … It doesn’t happen without effort on our part … As we sift through the contrasts in our experience, we define more clearly what we are preferring in life … and “Source” boosts your “Inner Being” … your “soul” if you prefer, to be the better you. Much of the real beauty of this lies in the varied uniqueness each individual one of us brings through our “selves” to the mix of humanity.

It’s important to emphasize that life is an exploration into the unknown … Ideally guided by a sense of direction chosen by passionate discovery … To each his/her own driving, motivating force … combined with the expanding growth of the inner “being” … the “soul” … seeking to fulfill itself with joyous experience in this physical world. Prayer in its many forms joins our “souls” with their Source” to become “charged” with encouragement … I think.

We could examine the lives of many individuals to find that the reality of spirituality is strongly a part of our lives. But it seems to me to be unnecessary. After all, we are all basic, yet nonetheless powerful, creative, spiritual “Source” energy contained within a physical human vessel. The reason being a desire to expand the content of consciousness and to use it in defining better being … selfishly altruistic simultaneously.

I’ve heard that the feeling of love is your experience of Gd. When you move into the “absolute”, you move into love. The realm of the “relative” was created in order that we can experience our “selves” … Devised as “real” so that we can get to know our selves experientially with Gd contrived in such a way that it appears “Source” has created something other than “Itself”. “It’s” all that is, yet contracted and seeming as separate. Deep!

So there you have it! Unconditional love with a portal to personal greatness … You can choose to “be Gd” … You are The Master of You. Go forth mighty one and be … Be the better being you are. Ask for what you need along the way and it is given in the most appropriate manner for your benefit … with love. Remember, thoughts rooted in fear produce one kind of manifestation on the physical plane whereas thoughts rooted in love produce another kind of manifestation on the physical plane … Your thoughts decide which will happen. The “secret” of the relative world is to ignore the propensity to think with roots in fear and choose only thoughts rooted in love! In every instant, moment or circumstance.

As an aside, I think it’s funny how we’ve been lead to believe that Jewish Jeshu actually looked like the picture in the above video. 😀 … He was a Middle Eastern Jew! Darker skinned than a European to say the least. Anyway, just had to share that. Not that it matters really, but I bet he didn’t look like that. Anybody draw back then?  What if Vincent Barzoni was correct? Would that be so terribly wrong?

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But that brings me to another thought. A deep one …

As far as Gd is imagined, we have no real idea what “That” looks like … “It” has no body, yet It is everything … and ONE. There is no separation and It can be recognized in everything yet sensually ephemeral and almost non-existent. It Is As It Is and will Be as It will Be. We have no say in the matter … We’re just extensions … But we have a manner in which we say … Thanks for this opportunity to emulate You! There’s power in every moment and blessings in disguise. Nothing happens by “accident”. We too are GREAT!

Go for it … All the best!

 

 

Oh Sweet Jane Where Hath Though Been?

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There’s a lot of discussion of the use of Cannabis sativa for medicinal purposes as a nutritional supplement … Well, I’m totally in favor! You see, perhaps better, imagine you see … It is the plant that propelled me on to fields of study related to the uses of herbs, roots and spices in nutritional healing. Alas, those were good days! 😀 … Wouldn’t mind a “bush for buds” in my garden … just for the fun of it … and it’s health benefits on sanity! 😀 … Just joking wit ya … I’m sane without it for sure. I like more that there is growing evidence of it’s benefits against cancerous developments and that CBD dramatically reduces the frequency and severity of seizures in children and adults that suffer with intractable epilepsy. There’s a lot going on in the medical marijuana “field”:

Ralph Smart, Infinite Waters, has listed what he says are the “secrets” marijuana smokers won’t tell you … The videos are very entertaining:

Despite the evidence against alcohol, cigarettes, addictive substances, caffeine, sugar even and some pharmaceutical medicines, not one death in thousands of years has been attributed to sweet “Jane”! There is a more sinister plot at hand that “Mary” threatens:

The following is a forum discussion revealing what’s said to be the latest scientific findings, legilization and enforcement issues … how to weave marijuana and hemp back into American lives:

More research is necessary. We need to know the truth … The whole truth and nothing but the truth! Let’s not let the world go crazy! We have to be careful who has the right to set our policy, which ideally should be with the will of the people, not against it! Demonizing a Gd-given plant that offers such “good” vibrations for no good reason? What the heck!

This last video touched upon something quite scary that in case you missed it, you can get a deeper sense of what’s “up at stake” here:

Is this for real? The following report is of someone who says that she is “a targeted individual”. It’s unbelievable for lack of wanting to believe what she says … It’s scary. Could this be real?

Imagine that? NO! On second thought, rather not! Too intense a reality to experience.

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What’s the world come to? Is there any way to escape? As intense as all this is, those of us who want to “live”, in the fullest sense of the word, must find ways to access the benefits of what’s available without supporting the evil aspects of “the trade.” Did you also catch the statement, that cannabis has the ability to deter mind control? That’s good to know!

All this talk about manipulation is a bit unnerving. It is wise though to recognize the signs that identify it and “nip it in the bud” ASAP! So …

In truth it’s an inherent part of life in the way people do business. The art of persuasion is a large part of the sales industry and even has handy use in presenting oneself before employers and the like. But should never be used with evil intent. That is simply wrong … in any of our doings.

So, is hemp the most powerful plant on Earth? It sure serves a purpose … In fact, many!

For sure, I am not advocating mis-use of the herb nor in support of deteriorating minds, Gd forbid! But I do recognize the need to allow the gifts given to us to be used in their fullness … For what other reason are they here among us?

The following documentary explores the long-standing relationship of human beings and cannabis, from its use in ancient Asia to its ban in 20th century America … Believe it or not, enjoy!

The History Channel put together this compilation if you are interested in learning more about the history of man’s experience with psycho-active “foods” and “drugs”:

While we’re on the subject of mind-altering plant substances, you might be interested in this next documentary which traces the use of DMT containing plants throughout the ancient world, the major world religions, and beyond! FYI 🙂 … Just to know more!

Whatever you find yourself to be doing in your world, do BE SAFE!

Guard the valuable gift the world has … that is YOU. All the best!!

 

 

Parallel Realities

In an article in The International Business Times, Neil Dagnall and Ken Drinkwater ask the question, “Could parallel realities be giving you memories of things that never happened?

Is it possible that parallel realities are real or is it that we just imagine that they exist … and come to believe that they do? Crazy stuff going on here. What do you think?

Here’s another video by Aaron Doughty … I like his presentation manner, succinct delivery and clear explaination of this interesting concept. I’m curious what you have to say about all this. Is it all just a “crock of turds” 😀 ?

Is it “Aaron Doughty Day”? My “parallel”ing … I’m fascinated with his delivery. From his mouth, you’ll gain a greater grasp of this information than if I were to write about it. Whatever, what we have here is “food for thought” and for better “minding” of your busy-ness! Here he reminds me of Abraham Hicks discussions. You might want to compare the two teachings:

😉 For comparison sake the following is the Abraham version of this stuff. Abraham explains through Esther Hicks (link connects another discussion about parallel realities from their viewpoint) about the power present to us in our “now” mpoments and that the primary work for us to do is to establish a positively set” point of attraction” that serves us our preferred outcome:

As you learn to focus your attention on your becoming, with clarity and purpose, the manifestations that occur are the reflections of your thoughts and beliefs.

Hey, are you familiar with The Twilight Zone? Happened to be one of my favorite TV shows to watch growing up. May have influenced my development beneath the “radar” of my consciousness. Is there a way to find out? In any case, check out this episode:

Suddenly I’m reminded again of The Talking HeadsHow did I get here?

Ralph Smart, aka Infinite Waters, speaks about synchronizing reality with the “path” you’ve inwardly chosen. Here he reveals the effect thought and determination has had in his life and how our dominant thoughts align with our life to become our experiences:

10 Signs Everything You Want To Attract Is On Its Way To You

Wayne Dyer has a recording where he speaks of the 101 Ways to Transform Your Life … Become A New Human Being. Those of us who really want to “soar” above and beyond our “limitations” should hear his method for shifting into the transformed reality we desire. Inspiring spirits, this in”spiritation” occurs now!

Lots here to think about! However, no doubt, it is now more clear from all this information that we have the power to control our destiny. In fact it is we who determine it! Which parallel reality will you choose?

Become a Better Human Being … Master the Art!

And now, for your listening pleasure, I bring you to the following parallel broadcast … Enjoy!

Leave The Matrix

Are you one of the few people who “are aware” of who you are? Are you on your way to achieving your full potential? Are you sure? We’re spirit beings in human guise, right?

I think it turns out that very few people are truly correct in answering yes. I’m not in a position to say whether or not you are positively affirming correctly, but let’s assume for the sake of merit that you are. That makes you very lucky! Because the influences of our environment and society at large are working subconsciously against the expression of your “true self”. While quite a long, multifaceted video, the following will give you great insight as to the “programing” we are being subjected to in order for “the powers that be” to maintain a good level of control.

As you can now understand if you watched the video, we’re quietly under assault from many varied directions. It appears the “elite” will do anything they can in a matrix of control to ensure their successful takeover of our minds to become slaves to their desires and consume what they want us to.

But, we must remember one thing, the most important thing to ever keep engraved upon your hearts, that you are the very being that is imaged in the “likeness” of The Creator who came up with you in the first place … including your being a bearer of the very energy that created the world! YOU ARE YOUR MATRIX!!

To be a bit more clear here, your thoughts are the things that set up your mode of being, your mood … your swings … they lend you “feeling” about your “reality”. What if you are in control of yours? What if you can manage to focus your attention, 24/7, on that which you are happy about in your experience with your life. Actually living it in its fullness because you are allowing for that to happen. Awesome thought right now, eh?

Of course, this takes tremendous will power and desire to be clear that you are an extension of The Source of your being! Your success is a credit to your being … increasing and expanding on that which had prior been achieved. You thus bring glory to being that which you essentially are … and not be “trapped” within the fantasies of those who don’t have your interests in mind. There is no virtue in living life through someone Else’s … how much more-so through those made up in the minds of programmers?

Anyway, I once again have here another Abraham Hicks session that has more entertaining, yet important information for us to keep in mind. We can and should tune our selves to stay on the “high vibration” path … The one that allows with clarity of being the goodness that is with us every day all the time even when we don’t notice it. It’s beyond what we think … But none the less good!

How do you release the “hook” that holds you back? … The succumbing to the whims and fantasies of the many “sheeple” in your midst … in the environment that you chose subconsciously to affect you the way it does? Do what you should do according to the messages received from your own “inner guidance system” and flow “downstream” instead of “up” … on the path of least resistance … The path of most allowance!

So there you have it! An uncommon yet rather sensible way to leave “The Matrix” and live a life of abundant creation. With sight aimed through an inherent “guidance system”, we can build “thriving” momentum in the direction that is most likely to get us where we want to go … in the best way possible. Without resistance, we allow … We permit our “inner Gd-sourced being” to reveal to us “the path” to follow that leads to what we want. Sounds nice, doesn’t it? The Universe works tirelessly to accommodate your desires … “The Matrix” no longer has influence!

Read this book alongside listening to the audio: How To Be A Genius … The Science of Being Great, the third and final book written by “new thought” pioneer and inspirational author Wallace D. Wattles back in the early part of the last century. Wattles was way ahead of his time and his books are even more popular now then they were back when he wrote them.

You are more than your body … There is a “Source energy” part of you that is a strong vibration in momentum  … constantly calling you on toward greater greatness. It pays quite nicely to hear that call and forever leave “The Matrix”. Wisdom is the essential basis of  your greatness … Gain it and use it for your growth. Uncover your destiny.

The Alternate Reality

Are you aware that an alternate reality exists to everything you currently imagine? So much has come to light with regard to how our consciousness affects what we perceive as real. The previous post revealed a video that explains all this in depth. It is quite a mind-opener you should take a moment to view! If you are interested in how one particular spiritual mentor found “the secret” to better living, the following movie by Wayne Dyer is one of the most inspirational films I have ever watched  … Watch it too 😀 … In it’s subtle teaching, it shows the ways in which you can be happier and more content in life by recognizing ignorance and opening the door to shift into a better reality.

Too many people tend to miss the goodness in their lives simply because they largely focus their thoughts on what’s wrong with their lives and do not pay homage to what is in fact good. This practice only serves to keep the frequency of their “vibration” on a low level. Positive, high level vibrations result from happy thoughts and feelings. The Universe’s Law of Attraction states that whether we realize it or not, we are responsible for bringing both positive and negative influences into our lives.

Those of you who have been following my posts know that every now and then I like to include the words of wisdom that stream from “Abraham”, the collective universal consciousness, through Esther Hicks. To the unfamiliar, their teaching is that we as human beings, are THE “LEADING EDGE” of present day “re-creation” … continuously expanding the Universe beyond that which was created prior to our coming here … and creating new avenues of becoming.  In fact, “recreation” is such an appropriate word since from their point of view, we unfortunately tend to work too hard! Life is meant to be fun … an experience within which our needs are provided effortlessly by the nature of God’s Universe. The error of thinking we must struggle and strive for success only causes us to resist going with the flow of “Source” (present in the form of our “inner being”) who from what I’ve come to understand, immediately answers our call and provides at that moment what we need (albeit on a vibrational level, but nonetheless done for us). We just have to somehow match the frequency of that vibration the same way a radio dial is adjusted to tune into a specific broadcast. Check this for more if interested:

All told, what’s written on the bottom line is that we can dictate the state of our “reality” by the way we focus thought. We have the ability to enter consciously into alternate realities at every moment! Every moment of our lives can be as real as we imagine them to be. It is said that the “present” we are living at this moment is the “old news” of our past thoughts and imaginations. By living “in the now”, we can gain insight on what to anticipate will be the experience of our future.  With what we have learned thus far, it is obviously wise to preserve every “now” moment with the infusion of good feelings and appreciation for “the path” we are on and positively thinking about it.

Many times all one has to do is “go with the flow” to where the inner being is leading. Instead of trying to go against the flow, resisting the “ease” with which “Source” and The Universe is tending to and providing for our needs, what we really need to do is allow the “inner being” within us to navigate the way. Like a GPS navigational system, it is said that our inner beings indicate to us whether or not we are on the right path in life by the way we feel … Happy? You’re on the right track. Not, you’re not!

As an experienced human being, my experience (and I am pretty sure it is the same with you) has been that it is extremely difficult to maintain a happy state of mind and a positive outlook when things go “haywire”. Sure, some times it is easier than others when things are working out … or appear to anyway. But, in the midst of a crisis, who of us can whistle a happy tune at that time? Gloom is doom no matter which way you look at it. There exists at that time only darkness … light has a very hard time dispersing it. But, it is possible to alternate that reality for another. Listen to a full workshop Esther conducted:

However you can do it, enjoy the journey on the way to what you want even though the whole time you’re on the way you aren’t there yet! We are and will always be on our way to something more. We will never get “it” done and the only “wrong” way to try and get “there” is to not have fun along the way. It’s during the journey that you’ll experience thrills. Alternate the “reality” of your experience to serve your future well.

What is Consciousness?

I find myself at times looking through eyes or otherwise sensory perceiving through body parts that I’m not sure are “me”, an experience that seems somewhat peripheral to who I am … who or what I was made to be, came to be, am to be. Too deep to put into words … at least by me 😀 . But the point is, what if my experience of life is just an imagination? Images built by thought into a “nation” of “perceived reality”, that really is only a dream that can change at the whim of the next thought!  If “made in Gd’s ‘image'”, what chance do we have of continuing to exist if “It” decides to “think” otherwise? … Is our experience of Life based purely on what “Its” imagination is? Yikes! Whoa Nelly!!

Personally, coming from who I know myself to be, I believe that as extensions of the primordial and eternal “Source/God” energy that created what we know as reality – we contribute to the whole, individualized portions of the same for continuous, eternal expansion. Can you agree? Why did Einstein state that, “the most important decision that we make is whether to believe we live in a hostile or friendly universe”?

I can tell you from my experience with Psilocybin mushrooms back in my college years, that such a decision is extremely important before setting out on an adventure into the unknown … It can make or break the final outcome … and the right environment for “being” is crucial to all manners of success. The wrong one only causes too much resistance to allowing a focus with clarity on what is good. As a disclaimer, “magic mushrooms” are illegal and categorized as a Schedule I controlled substance in the United States, though recently, the FDA and DEA have allowed some small, highly controlled human studies on their potential for use in medical and psychiatric settings.

But my greatest interest comes in learning how to alter my reality … to how I want it to be. This excites me! To have the power in my “mind” to think thoughts that serve me well and set up an attraction to whatever it is that I want. Can you feel it … how exciting that notion is? Our thoughts are the most dynamically fluid vibrations of energy substance in the entire Universe! While separate and independent of our physical universe, they interact with our physical universe. Any thought repeated over and over and over again in your conscious mind will make an imprint in your subconscious mind … and just as a tuning fork, it then begins vibrating and attracts to you the people, circumstances, events and synchronizes them all to match the images you hold within. Amazing!

Here’s some more wisdom for every day:

All in all, we are the bearers of the key to our future. By taking charge of our “present” we prepare the way we are to be “gifted”.  Create the reality you really want … Think … You will be that you will be!

This Life is Amazing!

It’s been quite a while since my last post. I’ve gone through some rather “funky” transitions that are too complex to try and explain in words so I won’t do that here. Besides, it’s experience that teaches and not the words that describe the theories. So, you’ll just have to learn from yours and yours alone … But, I will still share with you my thoughts. Who knows, maybe I am sent as one of your “spirit guides”, being a “spiritual motivator” of sorts?

One of the things that has proven to me how amazing this life we have is, has its root based in contrast. For instance, we do not recognize “light” until it springs out of and dispels darkness. The contrast between the two amplifies each one’s identity. The same can be said regarding the distinction between the colors of a rainbow. While the dividing lines may be somewhat blurry, the core of each is distinctly different and true to their being. We get to know what we want by experiencing what we don’t want. That’s what helps bring clarity into our lives.

As I have mentioned in previous posts, I found myself in a dilemma of sorts trying to come to grips with a contrast between how I wanted to feel and the reality of how I felt … Essentially coming to conjure up two women into my world. One with whom I married and have raised a family with and another with whom I would really love to do the same even more … Much more!

Anyway, what has come to my attention is that “prayer” is an extremely powerful tool which does get answered. Though the answer isn’t always recognized, there is one nonetheless … Believe it or not. The way I see it, considering the fact that as the “breath of life” was breathed into our ancient ancestors Adam and Eve, that “breath” came from the innermost space within The Creator. This implies that a portion of “It” was thus implanted within the bodies of these first humans … The “soul” … an extension of God.

So in a sense, we, as descendants of those first human beings are alive because of the existence within us the energy from which ALL was created. When we ask for something, we are likely to somehow get it simply because it is as if our “Source” is giving in to Itself … Can you real-ize that? Would “It” deny itself what “It” wants and needs? Quite a powerful concept when you think about it! We were created and are meant to be human likenesses of God!! Unfortunately many of us do not identify with that. The important thing to keep in mind however is to be very clear about what it is you really want and in fact, need. Things always work out for us when we let our path find us!

I remember, almost 28 years ago, asking The Holy One to provide me with a woman that would be suitable for me to marry and be a good mother to our children. Not a bad request at all … my request was granted and I was very happy about that. However, with the passage of time, I came to realize that though my life was blessed by her accompanying me on that wonderful path, I was not truly bound “contractually” to the woman who I could recognize and feel as my “true” mate. There was a pronounced recognition of genuine incompatibility where complementary action won’t happen.

As it happens with me, my nature of being attempts to focus mainly on the positive side of things in the equation more than the negative … And I tend to stay with something (or someone in this case) that doesn’t really serve me in the ideal way I would prefer. I held myself in a job that was similar maybe longer than I should have too as an example. I say “maybe” because it could be that my time there was actually what was necessary for me to learn and develop into what I eventually did. It may be the same thing with the woman who has up to now been my wife.

Something begins to stir within me though that causes me to yearn for better at some point along this journey through life. It “comes to a head” one day, then “bursts” … In this case, the feeling that I was sorely without yet desiring my true mate. The woman who called herself my wife was not the “real deal” … Though she tried as best she could. Sadly though, I could not rid myself of the thought and feeling the tremendous lack. It pervaded my being and even brought me to tears.

I went out into an open field and with eyes raised to Heaven, poured out my heart and cried for an answer to my problem. “Either show me that I was to accept that this woman is to remain “mine” for the rest of my life or provide me with another and make it such that peace would reign between all involved”.

What happened within a week later, my eyes were “opened” to capture the presence of a woman who somehow illuminated my soul. Long story short, I had again been given an answer.

Life is full of surprises. One only has to be open to witness the many wonders and miracles that occur around us every moment of every day. There is no shortage of fascinating things that can and do happen for us. Just be aware of your “divinity” … For we are all samples of “God-ness” … Spiritual beings of goodness in the guise of physical beings that have the ability to create our realities by connecting with the energy that we are and its source. Life is truly amazing … Make it fantastic!

The Magic of Referrals

The power of word of mouth advertising is touted everywhere in business. To have others boast your praises has the power to drive more interest in what you do, what you offer … Think about it: Two people like what you do, what you have to offer … they each tell two others who are interested in “that type of thing” … That’s four more folk who now know about you. With or without incentive, those four do likewise in interesting two people to “the offer” … Now you’ve got another eight … and on it goes to some fantastic number … theoretically.

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In his book, The-Science-of-Getting-Rich, written back in the early 1900’s, Wallace D. Wattles writes of the fact that it is not possible to live a really complete or successful life unless one is rich. “No man can rise to his greatest possible height in talent or soul development unless he has plenty of money; for to unfold the soul and to develop talent, he must have many things to use, and he cannot have these things unless he has plenty of money to buy them with”.

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Many are Man’s Thoughts

. . . The thoughts in a man’s heart are many. But it’s the “advice” that “Source” gives to him that will bring about what he wants in his life.

In my last post, I brought up the idea that inspiration is the result of a “breathing” mind … a mind which is receptive to the messages which our “Source” provides for us. Is yours “breathing” today? What it takes is simply to be in a relaxed state appreciative of all that you have and are doing while the Universe secretly arranges for people, events and things to surprise you during the day. It’s about making the choice to feel happy no matter what the circumstances are in life because that is the naturally intended state of being for “creatures” made in the “image” of God … in Its likeness.

In his book Psycho-Cybernetics,  Maxwell Maltz relegates a whole chapter to this notion. Not exactly in relation to what I wrote above, but the concept that happiness is native to the human mind. Happiness enables us to think better, perform better, feel better and maintain good health. Too often many of us hold the false belief that we will be happy after some future event or occurrence. The problem with that is while we wait for it to happen, we miss out on being happy in the present … The “now” loses out due to the disappointment of the event or occurrence not yet happening. Happiness is a mental attitude, a habit, that is learned and practiced. If not in the present, it may never be experienced. This is just one topic the book discusses.  With millions of copies sold, if you haven’t read his book, you may be missing out on the most important influence on your life. Check it out!

What needs to be reiterated is that we receive countless numbers of blessings each day. The simple fact that we are alive is one of them. While life does have its problems, it is to be understood that they are in our lives for the challenge of overcoming them. Life would be rather boring if all day every day everything went well without any blips. There is an interesting level of fun experienced when we overcome obstacles to achievement and solve difficult problems. It’s our mental exercise routine. Moreover, we create an expansion of our being by realizing greater abilities through experience.

Esther Hicks, the physical conduit of the thoughts of a collective of non-physical beings, talks about the purpose of contrast in our lives as being the means by which we learn what we want in life. That in fact, we knew that this is the reason we came into the world … to discern personally what we want to focus upon as “creators” … extensions of Source energy.  The world in which we live is vibrational and a change in your personal vibration will change your life. Thus, it becomes very important to give our attention to positive thoughts and feelings because that is the way we attract positivity into our lives. By focusing with clarity on what we want to experience, we encourage exactly that to be.

I can’t over emphasize how much this process has been affecting my life lately. Everything is always working out for me. Maybe not immediately, but I no longer have cause for concern. I know that “Source” is with me all the time in every moment no matter what. What a relief it is to hold that belief. I now experience my world unfolding beautifully in ways which allow me to receive what I want to come to me. One of the things that has come is the new Aspire Training for Online Marketing Mastery. What a fantastic “find”! More accurately however, the Universe coordinated such that it found me as a result of my enhanced receptive mode. With a 118+ page members area, it is bursting with training, expertise, community, tools and resources which ensure success for those  of us wanting to climb to the top of the internet marketing game. The coaching is first class as each and every one of them are already earning at least high six figures and some even at seven! I suggest you give it some thought if you too want a very nice income.

Anyway, life comes with challenges. The ultimate question though is how are you facing yours? You owe it to yourself to be in alignment with who you really are … with your origin and its true nature. once you maintain that frequency, the world becomes your playmate.

Make YOUR day special . . . !

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Inhale The Future, Exhale The Past.

One of the most important abilities we have as human beings, is the power to move the intellect and the emotions. Whether they be those within us or that of others, we can soothe or motivate thoughts and actions. In fact, inspiration is the result of a “breathing” mind … one which allows the flow of divine spiritual energy to enter freely without resistance.

Unfortunately, the nature of our being joined with a physical existence tends to keep us “grounded” in earthly concerns as if they are the dominant features of our being. More often than not we forget that we are spiritual beings having this physical “human” experience. The majority of our “bodies” are actually vibrational in form, connected to our Source. What generally happens to us is that we focus on circumstances and events that affect us one at or another too seriously. It’s as if our lives are dictated by the experiences of the world we live in as opposed to our dictating the experiences we want from our world. After all, having the energy which created the universe as part of our souls, the Source within us, we are capable of re-creating “reality”. We do not have to accept the way things are as the way the will continue to be. We can decide how to be … how to behave … how to think about the people, places, events and things in our lives. There is no sense is being a slave to our energy motions. We can control them. It’s all a matter of choice.

Very often, we neglect the “now” in our lives and spend most of our time in memory. Remembering the past keeps us from enjoying what is happening now and limits our looking forward. I myself began to real-ize this recently. Those of you who have been following this blog have noticed that it’s been a while since I last posted. Well, the reason is, mental expiration. Too many thoughts not leading me forward but keeping me stuck in relentless worry. No need to get into the details but it’s very difficult to come up with good content in that state. Needless to say, I’m past that now and working on an improving my future using my “now” as a launching pad.

There are countless blessings that come our way at every moment of a day. This is a fact that must be recognized and appreciated all the time. The only way we can do that is to be present in the moment. Why do you think it’s called the present? Because each moment of our lives is a gift! If we spend our time thinking backwards to the past or worrying about the future, we end up forfeiting the “gifts”. By relaxing and taking the time to be appreciative of where we are, no matter how much it may not be where we want to be, we can use the moment to take the necessary steps toward the outcome we desire. Each step forward will bring the destination that much closer … progressively coming into resonance with the totality of being that we essentially are.

Presently, I am working at a job which doesn’t pay me what I believe I deserve. It happens to be a rather comfortable job which allows me a level of freedom whereby I can actually be doing things like this while working. I listen to recorded lectures and read interesting articles while still performing the duties of my position. It’s a blessing all in itself. but, the pay leaves me desiring more. I really have nothing to complain about other than that. When I see the people in the same location busting their butts doing work that is much harder physically and mentally, who get paid the same relatively, I know how lucky I am. Or is it Divine Providence? You see, I recognize my “divinity”. Not that I am better than anyone else. It’s just that I real-ize that I am an extension of The Source of All Created Being. Most of the people I know don’t even think about this until I bring it to their attention. Of course it seems to me that they forget thinking about that shortly after I relate it to them. It’s so easy to get caught up in human frailty. Somehow, by aligning myself with that reality, I have managed to “create” a job reality congruent with that notion … I think. It’s related to the law of attraction. That which is like unto itself is attracted to itself. As I accept with gratitude the people, places, circumstances and things in my life, the door opens to the Universe to supply more stuff to appreciate.

For instance, knowing that I want to be making more money than I have been, though not complaining about it and drawing negativity around that situation, the Universe has been providing me with all sorts of guidance and information as to how I can begin to increase my financial well-being. As if by accident, I was attracted to an ad identifying 6 steps to a six figure business in 90 days. Now, taking into consideration that this seemed far-fetched, I didn’t know if it was true that this could be achieved. However, I also know that “Source” has my back! So much in life has shown me how much “It” Loves me and Wants my Happiness … I believe this to be truth. I’m checking it out. Maybe not going to be making six figures in 90 days (though I now see how it can actually happen …) but hopefully soon enough … preferably before the year is up 😉 . Hey, even five figures is better than the low four I make nowadays. If you are like me in any way, you owe it to yourself to check this or the likes of it out as well. If you can believe as I do, you’ll be positioned to make use of a potential winner. “Source” and the Universe that does “Its” work is seeking for you to benefit from life in this time-space reality as well. So, inhale the future, bring it in deeply and exhale the past, because back there is nothing that will do you any good right now anyway!

Of Houses and Homes

How many of you have heard the song “A House Is Not a Home” 1964 written by Burt Bacharach and Hal David? Many of you who have, for sure are more familiar with the version sung by Luther Vandross in 1981. No matter which one you listen to, I want to call attention to the notion that the structure we know of as a “house” is purely a physical one, devoid of “soul”; while a home has within the same type of structure, the spirit of warmth, kindness, nourishment, love and family.

Yeah, it’s been a long time since I wrote my last blog here. So much has gone on since then and without going into all the details, life is quite interesting. Those of you who have been following may be wondering what I did about the dilemma I was in the last time I wrote. Long story short, we are putting our talents together in a business venture. “Talents, you say? Yeah, but maybe more so our passions.

To further understand (. . . read the former post . . .), we are combining her knowledge and excitement about numerology as a means for revealing a persons “inner road map” or “numerical influencings” while I mix that perspective with biofeedback-ed aura images that reveal the energy frequency of the color spectrum most representative of the person’s core “vibration” . . . People will gain tremendous insight into their “be”-ing after a consultation with us. Quite fascinating indeed! This venture is a way for me to be involved with her, in at least this aspect of her life (though I really feel I want more . . . much more . . .), where I can focus on building a good relationship with her based as business partners. If it is a successful effort, who knows what the future holds?

But, it is A GOOD HAPPENING! I’m really excited and looking forward to experience how this situation unfolds . . . Hopefully in such a delicious manner that I imagine only a very small segment of how wonderful this could actually turn out to be. If it does turn out that “the match”, is indeed from Heaven to the Earth . . . Or at least we respond to it as if it is . . . This has the feel of a fun journey beginning.

For those of you new to this blog, I am within a 25 year experience of marriage to a valorous woman who is truly a blessing . . . through her unconditional love and determination to provide for her loved ones . . . Yet, for whatever energetic reasons, has a way of colliding unpleasantly with me and mine. I have wondered all too often if we are suited for each other. In fact, ask me and I’ll clearly say no . . . no more wondering here. Yet, is this something that I can decide for myself and be right . . . correct . . . by way of my own reasoning and intent? Or is there Divine Intervention that affirms, “Forget what you think, she’s the ultimate one for you, I know better.”

I don’t know and for sure don’t understand. I have no idea what the truth is.

What “sweetens the deal” is that we have recently built a new “dwelling unit”. A new place to live that we call “ours” . . . no longer renters  . . . “owners”.

My question now is this, what if the soul presently “registered” as “my wife”, is not ideally meant for me? What if I made a choice to marry her without considering an alignment with who I am to become in the eyes of “Source”, The G-D Energy, that which creates Worlds within The Universe . . . and my decision didn’t favor into account the longevity within which “contracts” such as the one we made in marriage persists?

What if at this stage in my becoming my greatest version of me, she can now only rank as a friend? She doesn’t excite me nor does she bring out the best expression of my self . . . and that a different “help-meet” is exactly what “the doctor” prescribes for my best interest? That’d be a blip! . . . Kind of . . .

So now the question is, will it be possible to transform the building . . . our new dwelling unit . . . the house . . . to a home with a vibrant, “soul-filled-unit”? A purposeful representation of the union of two splendidly matched components into a singular unit that radiates warmth and love to all who draw near . . . instead of a structure which in actuality is a portrayal of disunity and division, plurality that fails to communicate decisiveness and perfumes the air with dissension?

Now I’m not saying it’s really like all that exactly . . . Maybe exaggerated a teeny bit . . . As an idea . . . But, if it is impossible to achieve the preferable vibrant “state of living” in the spirit of a home, could it still be worth spending a portion of my lifetime in this “style” that is less perfect?

I am certainly worth more than that, but what if this is a part of my training . . . my preparation for the next stage of my oncoming “reality”?

Disconnected from a sense of belonging, from either side to either side, life feels obscure . . . unsatisfying  in its attempt at fulfillment. A very important “thing” is missing . . . Can one find true peace and satisfaction while in this experience? Can the house erected be built into a home? Is it necessary?

Wow! I better close this “can of worms”. If this stuff gets out into the wrong eyes, I’m “up a creek” . . . without a paddle . . . and it won’t be pretty at the rocks!

I believe that there is no such thing as an accident. Everything has a reason and a purpose. They may be things that we have brought and will bring upon ourselves by way of our behavior. The actions we’ve taken after a series of thoughts lead us along the path to whatever results.

We don’t always train our “dog”ma to avoid the tragic mishap of being hit by the “kar”ma. Being extensions of “Source Energy” gives us the power to “re-create”. We make decisions based on what and how we think. The Law of Attraction holds that we draw upon ourselves that which we are like . . . that which matches the vibration at which we are vibrating . . . being in alignment with the spiritual “broadcast” whose frequency is the same as ours . . . that with which we project to our world.

So, in the process of becoming a better and better version of oneself, there is a need to experience contrasting feelings in order to decipher which are liked and which are not. It is this “pool of wonder” that provides the substances from which we learn to build our vibrational allies. The energies which accompany us and assist us in the direction we choose to go.

Taking into consideration that our physical bodies are in fact a “dwelling place” for a portion of our “spiritual bodies” (the majority of which is comprised of the connection extending from “The Source”) what are we providing to our “selves” in the way of a house or a home?

I have come to understand that what we know of as death is really just a separation from our physical bodies – which at first frightens us because we fear giving up the experiences this world has to offer . . . They have become more real than life itself! Yet, the pure bliss of what it is like to be reconnected to the timeless, unhindered, frictionless World of “Source”, completely overrides the so called “loss” of physical experience.

Of course, this physical experience is what causes expansion of consciousness. It is here that newness “re-creates”. Ideas are born and mankind fashions advancements and fascinating achievements. Without this experience new worlds cannot be born and the universe serves no purpose. For its creation was solely for the purpose of covertly assisting us to become what we eventually become.

So now the question is, how are we serving our selves by our thoughts? What kind of “dwelling unit” have we constructed through the perpetuation of how and what we think? Is your consciousness in a house or is it living in a home? Are the thoughts that dominate every moment those which bespeak happiness, joy  and appreciation for all that you have and satisfaction in knowing that everything is always working out for the better in your life – or – do thoughts that don’t serve you well the reigning champions?

You need to know, and this is very important, that we can control how we feel if we care how we want to feel. This is an awesome power! Get to know it. If it is important for us to feel a particular way, we make sure we feel it. If it is important for me to feel good, I do my best to direct my thought to those which cause me to feel good. I “allow” myself to feel good. It doesn’t pay to allow oneself to stay in a state of depression and sadness, dismay and frustration with “the way” things “are”. The way things are are because they are “thought” to “be” that way. That’s what is thought! What “good” results from thinking like that? Who would want to live in that “house”?

So my friends, it turns out that we decide what experience we want . . . which we will allow ourselves to relish in. We are the creators of our “realities”, in each and every now that we enter. What happens is up to us and our focus on where we want to take ourselves . . . the path we choose to follow. No one else decides that for us. It’s all in our heads!

Lao Tzu said (in Chinese of course . . .), “Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become character. Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny!”?

With a working hearth in it, any house becomes a warm home.

Likes Like Likes

When we think about what motivates us and makes us act the way we do, we have to consider the draw. What’s the pull and what has it got a hold of . . . Where are we being “grasped” and in which direction is the force yanking? What is the nature of the force? What ALLOWS you to not fight it?

It all boils down to a similarity of form. Let me explain. Of course if you’ve gotten this far, you probably want to know where this is going – duhh! Anyway, when a force exhibits an attraction for another object, we can say that it is magnetized to that object. That for inherent reasons, some of which may not be known, a desire exists for one thing to another. That a force acting between two whatevers tends to draw them together and resist their separation.

But isn’t attraction usually a factor between two opposites? Complementary poles? Plus joins minus, males to females, light to dark, yin on Yang . . . The list goes on. So, how does that explain the concept of likes attracting likes – that “birds of a feather flock together”? It seems somewhat contradictory.

The look alike effect plays an important role in self-affirmation. A person typically enjoys receiving confirmation of every aspect of his or her life, ideas, attitudes and personal characteristics and it seems that people are looking for an “image” of themselves to spend their life with. One of the basics of interpersonal attraction is the rule of similarity. Similarity is attractive. It is this underlying principle that applies to both friendships and romantic relationships. There is a high correlation between the proportion of attitudes shared, and the degree of interpersonal attraction. Cheerful people like to be around other cheerful people and negative people would rather be around other negative people (Locke & Horowitz, 1990).

Similarity has effects on starting a relationship by initial attraction to know each other. It is showed that high attitude similarity resulted in a significant increase in initial attraction to the target person and high attitude dissimilarity resulted in a decrease of initial attraction (Gutkin, Gridley & Wendt, 1976; Kaplan & Olczak, 1971). Similarity also promotes relationship commitment. Study on heterosexual dating couples found that similarity in intrinsic values of the couple was linked to relationship commitment and stability (Kurdek & Schnopp-Wyatt, 1997).

But then, how does that jive with the complementary type of relationships? Perhaps the importance of similarity and complementation depends on the stage of a relationship. Similarity in humans seems to carry considerable weight in initial attraction, while complementary elements assume importance as the relationship develops over time (Vinacke, Shannon, Palazzo, Balsavage, et-al, 1988). Markey (2007) found that people would be more satisfied with their relationship if their partners differed from them, at least, in terms of dominance, as two dominant persons may experience conflicts while two submissive individuals may have frustration as neither member take the initiative.

All this I write is in the wake of my last post in an attempt at closure. Because I need to understand … Is it the similarity of form that is the basis of my drama? Being affected by an “image” of what I value, in someone else? Her being female really boosts the attraction no doubt. But essentially, and especially considering the importance of not messing up a “not all that bad” thing, I choose to focus on the beauty of my similarity with her being. To allow the excitement of simple communication with her and to see how I can learn lessons from her experiences for my own development. It’s a gift! While maybe not to be a “wife”, though I really would like for that to happen, it is probable I can still be “re-paired” even so … by basking in the “light” that flows between us from the miracle of her being in my world.