This Life is Amazing!

It’s been quite a while since my last post. I’ve gone through some rather “funky” transitions that are too complex to try and explain in words so I won’t do that here. Besides, it’s experience that teaches and not the words that describe the theories. So, you’ll just have to learn from yours and yours alone … But, I will still share with you my thoughts. Who knows, maybe I am sent as one of your “spirit guides”, being a “spiritual motivator” of sorts?

One of the things that has proven to me how amazing this life we have is, has its root based in contrast. For instance, we do not recognize “light” until it springs out of and dispels darkness. The contrast between the two amplifies each one’s identity. The same can be said regarding the distinction between the colors of a rainbow. While the dividing lines may be somewhat blurry, the core of each is distinctly different and true to their being. We get to know what we want by experiencing what we don’t want. That’s what helps bring clarity into our lives.

As I have mentioned in previous posts, I found myself in a dilemma of sorts trying to come to grips with a contrast between how I wanted to feel and the reality of how I felt … Essentially coming to conjure up two women into my world. One with whom I married and have raised a family with and another with whom I would really love to do the same even more … Much more!

Anyway, what has come to my attention is that “prayer” is an extremely powerful tool which does get answered. Though the answer isn’t always recognized, there is one nonetheless … Believe it or not. The way I see it, considering the fact that as the “breath of life” was breathed into our ancient ancestors Adam and Eve, that “breath” came from the innermost space within The Creator. This implies that a portion of “It” was thus implanted within the bodies of these first humans … The “soul” … an extension of God.

So in a sense, we, as descendants of those first human beings are alive because of the existence within us the energy from which ALL was created. When we ask for something, we are likely to somehow get it simply because it is as if our “Source” is giving in to Itself … Can you real-ize that? Would “It” deny itself what “It” wants and needs? Quite a powerful concept when you think about it! We were created and are meant to be human likenesses of God!! Unfortunately many of us do not identify with that. The important thing to keep in mind however is to be very clear about what it is you really want and in fact, need. Things always work out for us when we let our path find us!

I remember, almost 28 years ago, asking The Holy One to provide me with a woman that would be suitable for me to marry and be a good mother to our children. Not a bad request at all … my request was granted and I was very happy about that. However, with the passage of time, I came to realize that though my life was blessed by her accompanying me on that wonderful path, I was not truly bound “contractually” to the woman who I could recognize and feel as my “true” mate. There was a pronounced recognition of genuine incompatibility where complementary action won’t happen.

As it happens with me, my nature of being attempts to focus mainly on the positive side of things in the equation more than the negative … And I tend to stay with something (or someone in this case) that doesn’t really serve me in the ideal way I would prefer. I held myself in a job that was similar maybe longer than I should have too as an example. I say “maybe” because it could be that my time there was actually what was necessary for me to learn and develop into what I eventually did. It may be the same thing with the woman who has up to now been my wife.

Something begins to stir within me though that causes me to yearn for better at some point along this journey through life. It “comes to a head” one day, then “bursts” … In this case, the feeling that I was sorely without yet desiring my true mate. The woman who called herself my wife was not the “real deal” … Though she tried as best she could. Sadly though, I could not rid myself of the thought and feeling the tremendous lack. It pervaded my being and even brought me to tears.

I went out into an open field and with eyes raised to Heaven, poured out my heart and cried for an answer to my problem. “Either show me that I was to accept that this woman is to remain “mine” for the rest of my life or provide me with another and make it such that peace would reign between all involved”.

What happened within a week later, my eyes were “opened” to capture the presence of a woman who somehow illuminated my soul. Long story short, I had again been given an answer.

Life is full of surprises. One only has to be open to witness the many wonders and miracles that occur around us every moment of every day. There is no shortage of fascinating things that can and do happen for us. Just be aware of your “divinity” … For we are all samples of “God-ness” … Spiritual beings of goodness in the guise of physical beings that have the ability to create our realities by connecting with the energy that we are and its source. Life is truly amazing … Make it fantastic!

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Many are Man’s Thoughts

. . . The thoughts in a man’s heart are many. But it’s the “advice” that “Source” gives to him that will bring about what he wants in his life.

In my last post, I brought up the idea that inspiration is the result of a “breathing” mind … a mind which is receptive to the messages which our “Source” provides for us. Is yours “breathing” today? What it takes is simply to be in a relaxed state appreciative of all that you have and are doing while the Universe secretly arranges for people, events and things to surprise you during the day. It’s about making the choice to feel happy no matter what the circumstances are in life because that is the naturally intended state of being for “creatures” made in the “image” of God … in Its likeness.

In his book Psycho-Cybernetics,  Maxwell Maltz relegates a whole chapter to this notion. Not exactly in relation to what I wrote above, but the concept that happiness is native to the human mind. Happiness enables us to think better, perform better, feel better and maintain good health. Too often many of us hold the false belief that we will be happy after some future event or occurrence. The problem with that is while we wait for it to happen, we miss out on being happy in the present … The “now” loses out due to the disappointment of the event or occurrence not yet happening. Happiness is a mental attitude, a habit, that is learned and practiced. If not in the present, it may never be experienced. This is just one topic the book discusses.  With millions of copies sold, if you haven’t read his book, you may be missing out on the most important influence on your life. Check it out!

What needs to be reiterated is that we receive countless numbers of blessings each day. The simple fact that we are alive is one of them. While life does have its problems, it is to be understood that they are in our lives for the challenge of overcoming them. Life would be rather boring if all day every day everything went well without any blips. There is an interesting level of fun experienced when we overcome obstacles to achievement and solve difficult problems. It’s our mental exercise routine. Moreover, we create an expansion of our being by realizing greater abilities through experience.

Esther Hicks, the physical conduit of the thoughts of a collective of non-physical beings, talks about the purpose of contrast in our lives as being the means by which we learn what we want in life. That in fact, we knew that this is the reason we came into the world … to discern personally what we want to focus upon as “creators” … extensions of Source energy.  The world in which we live is vibrational and a change in your personal vibration will change your life. Thus, it becomes very important to give our attention to positive thoughts and feelings because that is the way we attract positivity into our lives. By focusing with clarity on what we want to experience, we encourage exactly that to be.

I can’t over emphasize how much this process has been affecting my life lately. Everything is always working out for me. Maybe not immediately, but I no longer have cause for concern. I know that “Source” is with me all the time in every moment no matter what. What a relief it is to hold that belief. I now experience my world unfolding beautifully in ways which allow me to receive what I want to come to me. One of the things that has come is the new Aspire Training for Online Marketing Mastery. What a fantastic “find”! More accurately however, the Universe coordinated such that it found me as a result of my enhanced receptive mode. With a 118+ page members area, it is bursting with training, expertise, community, tools and resources which ensure success for those  of us wanting to climb to the top of the internet marketing game. The coaching is first class as each and every one of them are already earning at least high six figures and some even at seven! I suggest you give it some thought if you too want a very nice income.

Anyway, life comes with challenges. The ultimate question though is how are you facing yours? You owe it to yourself to be in alignment with who you really are … with your origin and its true nature. once you maintain that frequency, the world becomes your playmate.

Make YOUR day special . . . !

Psycho-Cybernetics Updated and Expanded

Inhale The Future, Exhale The Past.

One of the most important abilities we have as human beings, is the power to move the intellect and the emotions. Whether they be those within us or that of others, we can soothe or motivate thoughts and actions. In fact, inspiration is the result of a “breathing” mind … one which allows the flow of divine spiritual energy to enter freely without resistance.

Unfortunately, the nature of our being joined with a physical existence tends to keep us “grounded” in earthly concerns as if they are the dominant features of our being. More often than not we forget that we are spiritual beings having this physical “human” experience. The majority of our “bodies” are actually vibrational in form, connected to our Source. What generally happens to us is that we focus on circumstances and events that affect us one at or another too seriously. It’s as if our lives are dictated by the experiences of the world we live in as opposed to our dictating the experiences we want from our world. After all, having the energy which created the universe as part of our souls, the Source within us, we are capable of re-creating “reality”. We do not have to accept the way things are as the way the will continue to be. We can decide how to be … how to behave … how to think about the people, places, events and things in our lives. There is no sense is being a slave to our energy motions. We can control them. It’s all a matter of choice.

Very often, we neglect the “now” in our lives and spend most of our time in memory. Remembering the past keeps us from enjoying what is happening now and limits our looking forward. I myself began to real-ize this recently. Those of you who have been following this blog have noticed that it’s been a while since I last posted. Well, the reason is, mental expiration. Too many thoughts not leading me forward but keeping me stuck in relentless worry. No need to get into the details but it’s very difficult to come up with good content in that state. Needless to say, I’m past that now and working on an improving my future using my “now” as a launching pad.

There are countless blessings that come our way at every moment of a day. This is a fact that must be recognized and appreciated all the time. The only way we can do that is to be present in the moment. Why do you think it’s called the present? Because each moment of our lives is a gift! If we spend our time thinking backwards to the past or worrying about the future, we end up forfeiting the “gifts”. By relaxing and taking the time to be appreciative of where we are, no matter how much it may not be where we want to be, we can use the moment to take the necessary steps toward the outcome we desire. Each step forward will bring the destination that much closer … progressively coming into resonance with the totality of being that we essentially are.

Presently, I am working at a job which doesn’t pay me what I believe I deserve. It happens to be a rather comfortable job which allows me a level of freedom whereby I can actually be doing things like this while working. I listen to recorded lectures and read interesting articles while still performing the duties of my position. It’s a blessing all in itself. but, the pay leaves me desiring more. I really have nothing to complain about other than that. When I see the people in the same location busting their butts doing work that is much harder physically and mentally, who get paid the same relatively, I know how lucky I am. Or is it Divine Providence? You see, I recognize my “divinity”. Not that I am better than anyone else. It’s just that I real-ize that I am an extension of The Source of All Created Being. Most of the people I know don’t even think about this until I bring it to their attention. Of course it seems to me that they forget thinking about that shortly after I relate it to them. It’s so easy to get caught up in human frailty. Somehow, by aligning myself with that reality, I have managed to “create” a job reality congruent with that notion … I think. It’s related to the law of attraction. That which is like unto itself is attracted to itself. As I accept with gratitude the people, places, circumstances and things in my life, the door opens to the Universe to supply more stuff to appreciate.

For instance, knowing that I want to be making more money than I have been, though not complaining about it and drawing negativity around that situation, the Universe has been providing me with all sorts of guidance and information as to how I can begin to increase my financial well-being. As if by accident, I was attracted to an ad identifying 6 steps to a six figure business in 90 days. Now, taking into consideration that this seemed far-fetched, I didn’t know if it was true that this could be achieved. However, I also know that “Source” has my back! So much in life has shown me how much “It” Loves me and Wants my Happiness … I believe this to be truth. I’m checking it out. Maybe not going to be making six figures in 90 days (though I now see how it can actually happen …) but hopefully soon enough … preferably before the year is up 😉 . Hey, even five figures is better than the low four I make nowadays. If you are like me in any way, you owe it to yourself to check this or the likes of it out as well. If you can believe as I do, you’ll be positioned to make use of a potential winner. “Source” and the Universe that does “Its” work is seeking for you to benefit from life in this time-space reality as well. So, inhale the future, bring it in deeply and exhale the past, because back there is nothing that will do you any good right now anyway!

Going Nuts . . . It’s Bananas . . .

I’m in somewhat of a dilemma. I need to vent. You see, there’s a battle going on within me having to do with the possibility that I’ve met someone important to me in my life . . . But, there is no way I can know for sure in which way and that my imagination isn’t running away with me.

This situation ties in somewhat with my last post, albeit unexpectedly. It’s from the lattice of coincidence.

It’s like this – a special, highly radiant soul has appeared in my environment and is causing mine a type of uneasiness that doesn’t allow me to stop thinking of her . . . She’s always on my mind. I think it’s from a rumbling of love but I don’t know how or why. With mere eye contact and words, we both begin to “glow” in each others presence. Her aura seems just like mine and we’re “energetically” alike. The major difference is with our ages . . . I’m around 11 years older! Now this wouldn’t be a problem for me if I wasn’t married; but, I am, for better or for worse. I can’t really investigate this possibility further.

The song by England Dan and John Coley floods my mind . . . Yeah, if this is the case, it is sad. But I don’t want melodrama. I’ve actually wondered since that fateful day I married if I indeed found my soul mate. I had doubts then, but to make a long story short, she was right for me at the time and may still be (24 years must mean something). But the fact that my soul didn’t nor doesn’t “sing and dance” from her presence tells me that maybe I settled for second best and compromised. What’s important is that my life is nevertheless good. While it is natural to want better, good is what it is.

No relationship is without its ups and downs with rocky precipices. However, there is much to be said for being “in love” with someone as opposed to merely feeling love for them. The feeling that no matter what, you are undeniably for that person and would do whatever you need to keep them in your life. That’s not to say I wouldn’t work out of love to keep my wife happy and provide for her as necessary; but, I don’t feel like I’m “in love” with her. In fact, at times I don’t even like her! Her personality seems incompatible and clashes violently with mine at times and moments do occasionally arise where I “make my escape” and go meditate. I do love her, but have this sense that my true soul mate is still out there – somewhere – maybe closer than I am ready for . . . and I won’t ask or attempt to verify my suspicion! It could just be that I having a middle age crisis. Who knows!

What to do? I might be too old for this one anyway so what the heck am I thinking. This is nuts! My wife is a high quality woman with a beautiful soul and wonderful intentions. I have truly been blessed to have her in my life and I hope vice versa. She’s been here and there for me through some rough times and I sincerely thank and owe her for that. But what if my ideal match really is someone else? This scares me! What if this is my last “incarnation”? I doubt that it is, but what happens if the next one is a long way off and I am supposed to act now? What if this fantastic woman is my soul mate? Maybe she is a reincarnation of some other past family member who I was really close to? It’s bananas – unpeeled and oxidizing! I may never know.

I better just keep business as usual for the time being. Gone are the times when a man can take more than one wife – legally anyway . . . and I care not to hurt my wife’s feelings over this matter in particular. It’s a good thing she knows nothing about this blog! So, unless the “soul” that has “zapped” my control reveals her identity in a way that makes it clear to me that I need clear the way, my “show” must go on as it has for the past quarter of a century . . . and still be blessed. Chivalry cannot be allowed to die. It’s the virtue of true, caring men who recognize what’s right.

So again, it’s high time for me to grab more trusty blends of therapeutic essential oils to infuse my brain with healing aroma. In case you want to know what I’m talking about here, check out the app. I shouldn’t have this time go lapse without them!

The Disruption of Anger

I had to catch myself this morning as I found myself a bit late getting off to work. One of my daughters is complaining that no one woke her up at six o’clock per her request (which I cannot recall her asking me if she did) anh here it was half an hour later. She’s standing in one spot loathing over how little time she has to get her things done. I said to her that while the situation looked bleak, it behooves her to do as much as possible in the time remaining. She just stood there wallowing in misery. I told her that as long as she stands there doing nothing, nothing will fet done and if she’s wise, she’d better put “the pedal to the metal” and haul a__. She just raised her voice and said there was no chance she could finish her preparations in the amount of time left. She was right. She wasn’t doing anything but whining in place. I wanted to yell at her but then quickly realized, in time, that she became the proverbial horse that when lead to water, can’t be forced to drink if it doesn’t want to. I didn’t know what to do.

I felt a surge of anger. What the heck is going on here? Can you smack sense into the “blind”, ignorant and stubborn? Of course not! Being a parent, it’s become apparent that one finds need for a course in psychology to meet the challenge of it. Not everyone “catches” his or herself in time. There are many terrible stories abound with tales of lost control.

I gain my insight from Torah. It happens to be my choice for principle guidance. I have no intent to impinge on anyone elses sources for moral or spiritual guidance. That said, Rav Chaim Shmuelevitz brings from Gemara that the ways of The Torah become part of a Torah scholar’s personality; the more a person learns the Torah and delves into its great wisdom, the more it becomes part of him. I reckon this holds true for anyone who permeates his life to live with holiness and good teaching from words of “Iight”, wisdom and truth. A true scholar of genuine Divine wisdom should be a person who walks the talk, who lives it, who embodies it –  someone in whom the values of “The Way” are personified in their conduct, the way they interact with people, their integrity and their decency. Every part of their being should be an expression of such high values.

This is why when there is anger, the wisdom and “in”-spiration of the Torah leaves. If the person who makes a point of embodiying the teaching is not walking the talk, if they are not an expression of the depth of Torah values, then there is no place for Torah within such a person. Living the values of “The Way” day-to-day is a prerequisite to being a true “enlightened” scholar. Hence many passages in the Talmud discuss how decency is the foundation upon which G-d taught learning can be built – not just because it is the moral imperative, but because the Holiest of Teachings cannot remain in a person who does not actually live its way. It has to become part of who he or she is.

There is a famous letter written by Nachmanides, Rabbi Moshe ben Nachman, known as the Ramban, who lived some 700 years ago. He wrote a letter,  what could be called an ethical will, giving advice for life to his son; but his words are timeless. He began the letter with a verse from Proverbs, and the first sentence in his own words reads as follows: “Accustom yourself always to speak all of your words with gentleness, to all people and at all times.” This is the Ramban’s first instruction to his son and, by extension, to people who value good moral qualities. We must speak gently to all people at all times. He continues, “and through this, you will be saved from anger which is a very evil trait and causes people to sin. This is what Sages say: that “whoever becomes angry all kinds of hell rule over him.”

The fact that the Ramban chose to start his ethical will with these instructions shows us how dangerous anger really is, but at the same time also gives us practical advice on how to control it. He is saying, externally you must act in a way which is the opposite of anger and that will have an internal impact. What we portray to the outside influences who we are on the inside. If we speak gently and kindly, this will prevent anger.

Of course all this is easier said than done. But, if any of us are desiring in any way to emulate The Creator and “Be” in Its Likeness, it is imperative to consider these words and learn ways to do so.

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Of Wives and Men

Are you or have you been married? What’s it like? Pretty intense at times for me . . . I want to believe for the better.

This post could be classified as one of my intimate personal revelations. However, like I want to believe, it’s for the good. As with all of my posts anyway. We’re in this to win.

So it goes, a man seeks a wife. Why? It was kind of fun being single. No limitations regarding my whereabouts whenever and I could interact with whomever I wanted without questions like “Where were you?” or Who were you with?” suddenly becoming like hornets flying at my face. Of course, when you can honestly answer without fear, unlike those times when the “smokin” co-worker in the office wants to spend maximum time talking to you and you very much enjoy it, it’s not so bad. But the world is full of temptations . . . no end in sight nor feeling. What ya gonna do?

What logic lurks behind a commitment which lasts an eternity? Would anyone in their right mind sign a job contract which contains a binding lifetime obligation, when so many jobs are available which do not require such an extreme commitment? Why not enjoy relationships for their natural duration, and then move on when the eroded passion ceases to justify the maintenance of the relationship? Why would any sane person willingly consent to stick with a relationship even after it deteriorates to the point that it is rocky and challenging at best?

According to Kabbalistic teaching, the compulsion to rush into a lifelong commitment is an expression of the human soul’s deepest ambitions. The subliminal signals emanating from the soul have caused the logic-defying institution of marriage to be an integral part of the human fabric since the dawn of time. The soul’s desire to connect and commit makes the aspiration for marriage one of our most basic instincts.

What is the soul’s agenda? What does it stand to gain from hooking up with another soul? The mystics explain that two primary considerations drive the soul’s desire to marry: a desire to be complete, and its need to transcend itself.

In the first marriage ever, Adam and Eve were initially created as a single, two-faced body. The single being was split in two—a man and a woman—and then reunited in matrimony. In the world of souls, the partition and reunification of the male and female components of individual souls occurs continually. Every body is occupied by half a soul, and both body and soul reach a state of completion only when they are reunited with their long-lost other half.

The Talmud says that each soul’s predestined soul-mate is determined before its birth. The two may be born continents apart, with seemingly nothing in common, but divine destiny ensures that everyone’s path intersects with that of their soul-mate. However, in rare instances, due to external spiritual factors which may intervene, it is possible for people to marry spouses who are not their soul-mate. Even in such instances, however, eventually the two original soul-mates will marry—whether later on in life as a second marriage, or in a future incarnation of the two souls.

According to Kabbalists, the soul’s most fervent wish is to transcend itself. Marriage offers the soul the opportunity to express its altruistic nature. Marriage is about two souls who put their individual needs aside, and commit themselves 100% to the success of the relationship.

With Adam and Chavah at the forefront, it has been our mission to sanctify the world and make it a suitable place for emulating its Creator and be cause for “It” to revel. The home is the first frontier. Man and his woman are the perfect team to implement this plan. When working in harmony, they have the ability to make the home an epicenter of holiness whose ripple affects the neighborhood and the cosmos.

While that may be the ideal situation, the reality can be quite different. Now I’m not saying that I am unhappy, not at all. Sure there are some unhappy moments in time which goes without saying. Things can’t be “jolly roger” all the time. How would we be able to appreciate the good times if we have nothing to compare them with? How would we know the difference?

But here’s the thing and this is where it starts getting real personal again. I don’t know how many of you read my post “This Is Personal” , but if you did you’d know that I am not “white”. Here’s where you find out that my wife is . . . well sort of. Not in the way that’s meant derogatorily. She’s an American Romanian gene Yehudiah born in Israel but grew up in New York City. Suddenly the Talking Heads come to mind . . . How did I get here?

Okay, I’ll tell you. For whatever reasons which I cannot say because they are altogether not so clear to me even, I’ve had this strong desire to want to know “Who is G-d?” . . . Really. My parents practiced Catholicism. While I faithfully went to church as a kid, I found myself wanting to know why the person people were saying saved them he himself prayed to G-d. Something didn’t sit right with me. The more I began to peruse through the bible that we had at home with its intriguing pictures, it appeared to me that maybe the essence of prayer should be directed to The Creator of Heaven and Earth. I don’t know, this is way to deep to write about now. Maybe I’ll write a book someday. But, essentially, I found myself in search of truth. Besides, waking up to the fact that the holidays that we celebrated, despite being quite fun days, had a lot of lies connected to them. What’s the deal with the Easter bunny? How come we had a real mean German shepherd dog guarding the inside of our house that let no one in and Mr. Claus could somehow sneak into the house overnight and plant loads of presents under the tree in our living room? No way he could get away with that and not get torn to shreds! Surely I’d have seen some red and white fabric shreds lying around somewhere in the house. Oh and the search for reindeer in the skies all night while listening for the bells chinging over an otherwise snowy silent night? Not once in all my years on this quest did I catch a glimpse of any of those characters. Why was I being lied to? What was the cover up? The truth doesn’t stand on one leg. It’s stabilized by a solid stance.

So I began my search for it intensively while attending university. There I met so many different types of people with so many varied beliefs that an opened mind can get flooded. I finally came to the conclusion that “original” teaching, the first five books that Moses wrote, had the most to offer me in the way of understanding who the real deal is as far as I can understand “It”. Not that I totally do but I feel good that I may be communicating better with “It” than I was under the influence of some other belief. Some say that somewhere in my gene pool there must have been a Jewish “spark” carried down from an unknown ancestor. I must say however, had I known about the Noachide Laws, that might have kept me from being under the yoke of 606 commandments and instead having to be responsible for upholding just seven! So much more liberating. But I’m happy to be living life under the “Canopy of Divine Guidance” so you won’t get any complaints from me. But, for anyone still with me on this blog dealing with similar issues like those I faced, the Noachide World Center may be a good place to look into. Check out these videos too.

Anyway, so I wanted to get married. Did I upset my destiny toward my soul-mate? Or was this part of the divine plan? What does G-d know that I may never find out?

When you change your world, you create a whole new reality. But your phenotype stays the same. For me, the types of “fish in the sea” seemed to become much fewer in number. In fact, pretty much down to zilch. Suddenly, pretty much any Yehudiah with brown skin that my friends and extended family would meet became a candidate for me. For that reason alone. But compatibility is an important concern for such a milestone commitment. I felt no need to be confined within the mindset that my help-meet had to look like me skin-wise. We are clearly people after all . . . Spiritual beings having a human experience! Not that much is different between us outside of the culture we are trained by.

So that had become the main challenge. Bridging the gap between cultural upbringing. I have found that compromise can be a double-edged sword that one must exercise extreme caution with. It can either encourage your wildest dreams or send you to your wildest nightmare. It’s important to keep your eyes on the prize you are trying to win. What’s your ultimate goal? Remember, begin with the end in mind. Now mind you, I, like every sane man on the planet, am attracted to beautiful women. Not that they are attracted to me, but I for sure am drawn to quality. Sure, there are some who look absolutely fantastic, but you can tell right away or even some short time after that they don’t represent quality women. Then again, you can find some really high quality women who look somewhat beast. I selected a “golden soul” who most certainly wasn’t going to be a draw to the “wolves” and maybe run astray nor would I wake up in the morning thinking again of those Talking Heads. Well, not too often anyway!! Admittedly it can happen.

So that’s it. In a search for a mutual lifestyle companion, we may find our selves building our own prison for reasons unknown. But, if the conditions are good, what’s the benefit of breaking out? Being committed doesn’t have to refer to an insane asylum. You have to stick with your “inner voice” and go with your program. It just may be that no matter which one you choose, she’s the right medicine for what ails you . . . Even if at times she makes you “sick”. It’s all good.

The Search for Meaning

… is not really a search as much as it is a fruition. As I go through my days and remember the past, I see now that they have been pathways to my being. How I handled my decisions at the moments they were placed before me became my direction. How our lives turn out is a direct response to how we choose to go about living it. The focus on finding oneself is actually a waste of time since we play the part that we script for ourselves. In other words, by making strides toward being that which you want to be, you begin acting that part. The time spent focusing on achieving excellence at it determines how well you become the player.

Meaning is defined by what it is intended to be! It is what you want to convey to others. There is no search for it. It’s what makes a person or thing significant. It’s defined by an observation. What do you mean to others who interact with you? How do you fit in? How is it you want to? What needs to be done if a change is in order? These are things that we can decide for ourselves before being labelled by someone else. The choices are in our behavior … our be-ing!

The great thing about us as humans is how diverse we are in being. There are so many types of us it’s almost ridiculous. But, the most fascinating aspect is that one way or another or more, there is a complementary symbiotic relationship to all that we do. Each of us contributing to a whole that is mankind on planet Earth. Should there be one to judge our progress, what would that mean to you as an individual? What part are you playing in the “game” and how well are you playing it? What are you doing to avoid being side-lined, or worse, taken out altogether?

When it comes to being at the top of your game, you’ve got to make sure you are properly rested, fueled and trained well to play. Without preparation, you can’t reach the top.

I highly recommend paying strict attention to your nutrition and making sure you keep your “vessel” in tip top shape. Sure there are certain things not in our control; but then again, we must take charge where we are response able.

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